Therapy Thursdays


I’m baaaacccck!!! I know I’ve been MIA for 2 weeks but it has been with good reason. So much has went on! The devil be trying his hand, but I need him to know that there is NO QUIT in me. A little background, I ended up with COVID-19. How I got it…I don’t know. I pretty much stay in the house and only be around a select group of people. Not that you all need this explanation, but people always wonder if you can trace it back and I really can’t. What I will say is that I do not wish this illness on ANYONE. It was a terrible experience, but I am grateful that I didn’t have to be hospitalize and that I had family and friends to look out for me during that time. I also had a death within my close circle of friends on top of that so there was a lot going on physically and emotionally. However, God is still God and HE is surely the reason that I was able to press through all of it.

Now that I’ve gotten that out the way…. COMPARISON KILLS!


I know y’all didn’t expect that! It really does. 4 the Life of ME I cannot understand WHY people tend to focus on what other people are doing and get upset about where they are in their life’s journey. FOCUS ON YOURSELF! I really need YOU…PEOPLE…MYSELF included to understand that WHAT GOD HAS FOR YOU IS FOR YOU!! Jeremiah 29:11 is a popular scripture for good reason!!! It says, “For I (GOD) know the plans I have for you, plans to PROSPER YOU and NOT harm you, plans to give YOU hope and a future!” Now, what does that mean? GOD has something specific, customized JUST FOR YOU! It has nothing to do with the person on your right, left, ahead or behind you. It has everything to do with you. The only person who can delay the plans for your life is YOU! We cannot blame anyone else for our short comings! SO, STOP LOOKING at Keisha and how she built her boutique and how many followers she has! Your time is coming!!

It’s a lesson that I am constantly learning because I know that my blog and everything that I believe God has called me to do will be different from everybody else. I’m not saying you can’t be inspired by other people because there are people, I look at who inspire me but ultimately, I go to GOD first with all my decisions. He is the one who orders my steps. I get quiet and I ask him how I should be navigating this season I am in and I listen for instructions because I don’t ever want to move outside of His WILL and PLAN for my life. His way is the best way because HE ALREADY KNOWS MY FUTURE!!

So, I TRUST GOD with all the details! I know that He will keep His promise to me! I trust Him! I need you to trust the process and know that you will get ALL that God has for you!

Until Next Time!


Ashley Lachea’

I'm just a girl who is passionate about her vision and seeing others succeed. I love fashion! I love life! I love ME! and most importantly I LOVE GOD!! Just come along for this journey with M.E. I will absoulutely, positively be FUN!

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